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This may be a weird request but lately I have not reallybeen wanting that sort of thing. Where you just meet up for sex and blowjobs. I want something different. I want to hangout with one of them and maybe go for drinks or a lovely dinner and than watch a movie. Is this a super weird request? I feel like since I have been getting older, that sex is great buit being with someone and just being intimate is perfection. Would I look super weird if that I did something like this?

Literally hundreds of people on this site do thsi sort of thing. You are not weird. Just tell them that you want to take them on a date maybe do something fun and not have sex. It'll be a much lower rate but you will have a great time. I have done it a few times and it is really nice. It feels great to be with someone in that sort of intimate way. I think people on the outside look at sex work like we are just paying to get off, which we are. But we are actually paying for someone to pay attention to us, to spoil us, to boost our confidence, sometimes we just want to be cuddled, some times we just want someone who wants to go to lunch with us and have some nice conversation. The world can be a very lonely place and this is how some people find their intimacy that they aren't getting elsewhere. This is something some of us need. The unlucky ones who do not have a soulmate to spend our time with.

Do not feel weird at all. They would probably perfer that versus having sex with a stranger. It might be a refreshing night for them. totally go forit. Seriously. Go for it. Like just a lovely dinner, maybe a stroll through the city or down by the water. Just enjoy each other's company. I bet they will enjoy it just much as you will.

There is no shame in wanting something like this. Everyone wants to feel something and be in a good place. They want to have someone snuggle into them because sometimes it is not about the whole sex thing, they want to feel loved. Even if it is for a small amount of time. I usually get upwards of three main sex options but I always pay for the full night so that I can cuddle her afterwards and wake up next to someone. That is not something I do a lot so sometimes it just feels nice to fall asleep and wake up with someone.

It's not weird at all since you are trying to go for the Girlfriend Experience. I think the escort will like it but I'm not sure if she wants to be involved in a client romantically and you should ask him out.

I think you are asking an escort on a date and it depends if she really wants to go out but mind you that escorts sometimes don't take a risk on going outside with a client.

@scarjo Well if the escorts are being paid to do that then there's no need for them to decline the offer and they will like it more since you will just take them out without dealing with sex.

Are you thinking of doing it at your place? I think she will love it and it's a lovely treat to make her special and you need to dress nicely like it's your first date.

I hope when you are dating her you will not think of getting dirty when she's around cos your mind will be busy that you got a hot escort around you and your penis will surely get hard.

@wadepoole It might cross his mind but I think he is serious on the date and won't think about it.

Your request is not weird, there are lots of people who wants the same thing as you and been booking escorts just for a date so you don't have to feel ashame for that. You can book escorts for this service "girlfriend experience and date" you'll see if the escorts offers this type of service at their page or website. 

Of course you can book escorts without sex and this is pretty common. All they want is a date or a girlfriend experience and others for a companion or plus one on an event. You don't have feel ashame about it as its really normal. 

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