From start to finish what do I do? I have not really done that sort of thing before so and I do not know what the protocol should be with me and this wonderful lady. Do I give her a drink or do I just kiss her and we start going at it. What should I do here? I feel like if I do not know what to do I will literally do everything that you are not supposed to do. I will totally make an idiot out of myself.
it is really nice that more and more women are on here speaking about what they need to do. it is nice that they feel comfortable enough to hook up with women. I am so excited for this time in life for women. Side note, I also participate in this sort of thing being a woman myself and I always start with a drink and some music. Minor chit chat and then we are under the covers in like less then 7 minutes. Super easy peasy. and Super duper sexy.
I think from start to finish you want to meet the woman in the hotel bar, have exactly two drinks and do all the small talk there and work out the details. Then go back to your hotel room. Put some tunes and pour one more glass of booze then start making out and getting naked. Then do whatever you two set out to do. Have fun. it is truly not that hard to comprehend once you are in the moment. You just need to get your head in the game.
Yeah literally what that girl said, she hit the nail right on the damn head. it is very spot on. Good job. Although the two drinks thing is not mandatory. I would also recommend going sober for the night. Drinking aids in you making dumb choices so I would just steer clear of that so you can keep a clear mind. Always keep a clear mind.
Is this your first time doing it with an escort? Why not just let her take the lead first and take note of it. And once that you're done, you can also ask her what are some of the things that they expect from you.
Nothing would really benefit if you keep on giving her drinks and you'll need it more but they will ask you for a drink and I'm pretty sure about it but If you want to lay your hands on her and keep it going and I know there's a VIP section that would let you do what you want to her.
Sounds like you are lost for words right there @SammyTwo. If you want you could also eat and relax but if you're more of a drinking person then you can offer her a drink and talk about what you want to do with her.
It all depends if it is an incall or not. Because if it's an incall escort, then you don't need to offer her some food or snacks. But if you're doing it at a hotel or something similar, I would suggest to prepare something light and maybe a beer or two.
@thorab what kind of drink are you going to suggest to tell him to get for the escort? Would it be a cocktail or he would let her decide what she wants?
I think you should offer her a drink if she wants and try to be sweet with her like she's your girlfriend.
If you're looking to meet her at a bar then you should give her a drink then move to the next step which is to concentrate on the first base, then move to a motel and do the second base then the third base and it will all be fine.
You sound really confused and it's best if you sort this thing on your own and try to figure out your best move on her.
You should just tell her that its your first time and that you are not well accustomed to the situation yet. I'm sure the escort will adjust and guide you as well. As for the rest, just act normally. Do some chit chats, drinks and go for the kiss if the mood and atmosphere is perfect.
It will be easier if you put in mind that its like dating, and treat the girl like your girlfriend. I think you already know how to behave in a date right. :)
There are escorts who will tell you what to do when they knew that its your first time. A simple dinner, drinks and ofcourse some romantic talks. I actually think it will come out natural.
Offering some drinks would be better. There are escorts who are aggressive, they usually make the first move. You can just go with the flow or tell her what you want.
