That's fair enough @trevilo. When I went through my divorce I ended up going on a lot of dates with a lot of women. I had a couple of short term relationships, because it's generally really difficult to have something that's really casual with someone once sex is involved, and it ended up turning things into a mess. I wasn't ready to be committed to anyone, and I didn't want to work on my issues at that point because I was still looking to be on my own for a while. I had a colleague at work who was going through the same thing and we would often share some experiences. There was one time where we talked, and his tone was a lot different. He was telling me how he had talked to a friend who had used an escort service, and how he decided to give it a try himself. I wasn't really sure what to think at first because that wasn't what I had been expecting him to tell me, but it didn't take long for me to change my mind and to ask him which site he had been using. He told me about his experiences and how great they had been with helping him to gain his confidence with women back, and how great it also is to spend time with women who are professionals. I checked out the site and started to learn as I went. There are a lot of beautiful ladies out there who have got a lot to offer a fella. I would say that this experience definitely changed things for me, once I made my first call. My divorce was absolutely terrible. The custody battle was exhausting and my ex didn't make any of this easy or amicable, so going through things was a total nightmare for me. Once I started using the escort services, I found a couple of women that I really liked seeing, and things because completely different for me. Amazing satisfaction, absolutely no complications, total freedom to not worry about anything other than what I had to get through. If there's any antidote to the bad divorce, I would say that it's seeing a good escort or two.