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I really like the idea of being able to have sex with a women where I can ask her for what I want. I know I shouldn't have to feel nervious but I'm not really good at talking with women in the first place so I'm feeling really unsure. I don't have a lot of confidence where talking to women is concerned. Any thoughts?

There are a lot of guys who come for escort services their first time and are really nervous. This is something that escorts see fairly often. One thing to know about when it comes to escorts is that you never need to feel nervous about approaching us for our services. It's what we do and a good escort will know how to make you feel comfortable and feel fine with asking for what you want. Another thing that will likely help is to look closely at the profiles of the escorts you're interested in checking out. You'll find lots of information about the services that each escort offers and what you can expect. Maybe finding escorts who offer a lot of information will be the best thing for you at first - although that's usually always a good way to go. The more information, the better. When you find someone that you're interested in reaching out to you can contact them and ask them any other questions that you have. You can also let an escort know that it's your first time and if she's a pro she'll know how to put your mind at ease. Maybe choosing where to meet might help you out when it comes to your experience. Deciding to meet at a neutral place might be the way to go, or maybe meeting at your place if the escort is opening to do that. Maybe a hotel would be a good option for you. Check on the escort profile first to see if they do in calls and/or outcalls. You'll want to reach out to someone who's open to what you want to do. Hopefully this information helps out. If you're interested you could always contact me. I'm very experienced with shy guys. ;)

awe i love first time guys. always so much fun. if you want to contact me id love to her from you.

First time guys are so much fun. Ive seen a lot of guys for their first time and I think the would all say that theyve had good experiences. If you want to meet with someone who has a lot of experienc putting shy guys at ease there are a lot of things that I would be happy to do for you.

First time guys are my specialty ;)

Who doesn't love first time guys or shy guys in general? I can give you a night that you won't forget sweetie.

I was really nervous about my first time with an escort as well because I was never good at talking to women or getting them to pay attention to me. Never knew what to say to a woman or how to approach them. Probably the most awkward guy out there at one point. lol. There's probably nothing better you can do than to reach out to an escort and start to gain some confidence that way. It's something that I wish I had done a long time ago. There's no pressure to worry about and you don't need to be worried about asking for what you want. The information is on the profile already if it's a good profile and you can find out what they offer or if there's anything that they specifically don't do. Maybe for you it would be good to be with an escort who offers a GFE. That's what I ended up finding out and it made talking to women so much easier for me. This is a good way to build your confidence. I can't recommend it enough. I'm a different guy than I was before and I have a much easier time talking with women now. Not sure what I was so worried about before.

Thanks for these replies.

I definitely like to be a shy guys first escort experience.

I'm with KennY_112. This was a really good experience for me and it's been a huge confidence boost. give it a try and you will end up really liking it. These women are pros and they know what they're doing. When you look at the profiles you can tell the ladies that are most right for what you want. Check out all of their information and see whos right for you. There are a lot of options and its good to take your time to look through them all to find out which is right for you. I took my time to look through all of the options because I wanted to make sure that I found what I was looking for - and I was super nervous so probably killing some time as well. lol Try it out and take your time. Youll be happy that you checked it out.

Haha this is so true and reminds me of what I was like when I first saw an escort. I was awesome with being a friend to women and I can always make my friends laugh. When I tried to talk to women that I was interested in though it was too funny for words. Just a mess. haha. A friend of mine actually gave me the idea of checking out escort services. I had no idea what to think at first but as soon as I started checking out the sites I realized what it was about. I actually did the whole date thing. I wanted to be able to take a woman out and have a good time. Work on actually being able to have a conversation knowing that sex was going to happen at some point. The first time the escort I saw was really cool. She knew that it was my first time and I told her that I basically suck when it comes to talking to women. It didn't take very long for me to feel relaxed around her. I would say that some of these ladies who say that they are good with first timers and shy guys are probably a good way to go. These are pros who know what to say and do to make you feel relaxed. After a few times I started to feel a lot different overall. The escort I saw actually gave me advice when I asked her as well so that I could learn how to not say so much dumb crap. Once you can relax things get a lot easier. Book some time with an escort and you will see that it;s a good way to go.

Theres a lot of good advice from the fellas on here and they are all right. The way that it works when you call an escort and let her know that you're a shy guy who has never used an escort service before is that we know what to do then. We are prepared to be open and give you a relaxed experience. Checking out the profiles is right as well. Before you start trying to make any bookings. Find an escort who you think is right for you and offers the kinds of experiences that you are looking for. For example if you arent looking for hardcore action then dont book an escort who specializes in S&M and things like that. It doesn't mean that she wont be good it just means that there is likely to be a better fit for you especially for your first time. I like the advice on here from the guys a lot. Its good to see as well because it lets us know where you guys are coming from. I'm a pro with first timers and definitly seen a lot of shy guys. I would be happy to hear from you.

I've got just what you are looking for.

I'm glad to know that I'm not the only guy out there who went through this haha. It can be so scary to have your first experience but for guys who start out shy its a really good idea actually. I wasn't shy with talking to women but asking them out or being sexually confident wasn't really my strength. I was never really shy but I was certainly not someone who was confident when it came to talking with women so I basically avoided trying as much as possible. Any dates that I went on were usually with girls who asked me out and they were fun but I always wished that I was able to ask out the women that I was really into. It was a guy at work who noticed this about me and he let me in on the secret that he had been the same and had decided to look into escort services. He was older than I was so he didn't seem at all like someone who would have ever been nervous but he said that it was his experiences with escort services that helped to make him feel better about being able to ask out women and not choke up all time. I was glad he told me. I took his advice and looked at the sites that he recommended. It didn't take long for me to find what I was looking for. I tried dates with a few different escorts and they were all really good experiences for me. It's not easy being a shy guy. haha. Go for it man. You won't regret it.

All these shy guys. Love it!

Wow this is really great. Thanks a lot for the advice.

I was totally nervous with my first escort experience too. I can't even pronounce some words properly that time lol but I was so lucky the escort I booked that time is totallty friendly and really comfortable to be with. She adjusted and didn't show any negative attitudes towards my behavior lol.

KennY_112
I was really nervous about my first time with an escort as well because I was never good at talking to women or getting them to pay attention to me. Never knew what to say to a woman or how to approach them. Probably the most awkward guy out there at one point. lol. There's probably nothing better you can do than to reach out to an escort and start to gain some confidence that way. It's something that I wish I had done a long time ago. There's no pressure to worry about and you don't need to be worried about asking for what you want. The information is on the profile already if it's a good profile and you can find out what they offer or if there's anything that they specifically don't do. Maybe for you it would be good to be with an escort who offers a GFE. That's what I ended up finding out and it made talking to women so much easier for me. This is a good way to build your confidence. I can't recommend it enough. I'm a different guy than I was before and I have a much easier time talking with women now. Not sure what I was so worried about before.

I'm seeing my very first escort on Sunday incall for  2Hours her name is Maya she's an Italian girl and is absolutely beautiful I've spoken on video call and she has the most sexy accent 😍 I am very excited to meet her and fuck her  But I'm also as nervous as hell it's only the 2 Nd time I've ever had  sex  with a girl and I'm 37 years old the last time was 13 years ago and I was drunk so can hardly remember it this time I'll be sober but that makes it even more scary 😂 I also lack a lot of confidence and am useless at approaching women and flirting that's why this will maybe be good for me I might be a different man after?? 

Good luck @mahoneyrichard84 just be confident and every bits of it 😉

I would recommend you not to pay for the first sex. Go to the club, pub, party, whatever, and find the girl, make an effort to take her to bed. It will be easier for you for the next time. You will get used to paying and you will not have the needed experience to find a girl later in your life

I think we are all nervous with our first escort hahaha, you guys I've never been that awkward in a date or with a girl before. Glady the escort is so professional and really adjusted to my energy and at the same time, she's making me feel comfortable and happy. 

Not involving feelings, remembering that it is something you’ll usually do, going with a clear mind and taking everything as roleplay, in other words, she won’t be your girlfriend, nor will she be available 24 hours a day for you. As such, you have to go with the flow and enjoy yourself without limits, in the end she won’t judge you.

Secondly, getting the rules clear before beginning, what you like and what you don’t so that in the moment of action, things don’t get cut short.

Thirdly, choosing a place where you feel comfortable for the encounter, because you’re naturally going to be nervous, the ideal thing is for you to be able to concentrate and feel free, you should choose a faraway place where you know no one is going to turn up or see you with the girl.

Fourthly, if you’re married and going to be unfaithful, think about doing something with the escort you wouldn’t do with your wife out of pity or nerves.

Fifth, if you don’t know how to break the ice, she probably will, escorts have more experience than us.

BoyNxtDoor
I really like the idea of being able to have sex with a women where I can ask her for what I want. I know I shouldn't have to feel nervious but I'm not really good at talking with women in the first place so I'm feeling really unsure. I don't have a lot of confidence where talking to women is concerned. Any thoughts?

Don't worry, by all accounts they will do all that for you 

nvrontime
awe i love first time guys. always so much fun. if you want to contact me id love to her from you.

ahahha are you ladyboy😂

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