There are some things that you should never say to an escort and to make the experience more pleasant for clients and escorts, we'll talk about what some of these things are. Ladies, get ready. Fellas, take note.
This is a good one@SteFFF21! One of the things that I really don't like to be asked is if I 'party'. I've got a lot of information in my profile that talks about what I do with clients and what I'm into for those who are interested. Yes, I like to have a good time, but when you ask an escort, or probably any woman if they party, that usually means that you want to know if they do blow. I'm not into that and if I was it would say so in my profile. Please read the information before you book services and even better, if you really want to know something that's not on the profile or that you're just not sure of, then it's always a good idea to ask first before making arrangements to meet. I've left dates because of this. Not all escorts are looking to get messed up when they're on dates with clients. Something to think about.
Haha! This is definitely going to be a lively conversation. One of the things that I really don't like being asked about is anything to do with my personal life. If I'm in a relationship or about my family in general. I don't think that any of us really want to be asked these things from clients. This is really private information and we're not asking it of you. There's really never any reason why you should want to know this about an escort so just don't ask. We're not interested in talking to you about our personal lives. If you want to find some points to talk about, think about it before your date. You can ask things about interests and things like that. That's no problem. Normal questions that you would ask people about what they're into, music, hobbies, whatever. We do go on dinner dates and things like that and of course there needs to be conversation. A good escort will also be used to having these kinds of conversations and will likely be the one to ask you questions. If you're not sure, just politely ask. No one would ever get mad at you about that. As a general rule though, don't ask about personal lives. There's no need at all for that.
This is an important one. I'd say that one thing I never want to be asked, and I'm sure any escort for that matter, is whether or not we need to use protection. I know that for myself and for a lot of escorts, this is a must. There are some escorts out there who offer some services without protection and that is completely at their discretion. In my case and I know in the case of most others as well though, it's not something that is negotiable, even if you're offering extra money. See what each escort is willing to do before you book with them, and if it's not clear on the profile to you, then ask them before you book. It is very offensive to ask an escort that you're with on a date or a meeting if you have to use a condom - especially if it's clearly stated in their profile that protection is a must!
Okay. Glad this one is up here. One thing that I don't ever want to be asked when I'm with a client is if I'd like to go on an actual date sometime. This isn't the basis of how we met and we're not going for anything long term if you are my client. The answer is going to be no. When you're hiring an escort for her services, and then you ask her 'out on a date', you look like you're trying to get services for free and that is never a good look. This isn't Pretty Woman, you are not Richard Gere. If you want to ask someone out on a date then ask out women that you meet when you're out. We are professionals who are offering a professional service and it's our job to make you feel wanted, needed and fulfilled. This rarely, if ever becomes a situation that's going to turn into anything more than a professional service.
One of the questions that makes me really uncomfortable when I'm with a client is when they ask me if I have any other clients that I'm seeing on that day. The answer is most likely going to be yes and that's a really awkward thing to have to communicate with a client when you're with them. The real answer to this question is that it's absolutely none of your business and you frankly shouldn't be asking because it's not appropriate. If you're looking to book a full day, overnight, or whatever the case may be, then you first need to find out if these are services that the escort you're booking with offers, and do it in advance. Asking once you've arrived isn't cool. Most professional escorts who are good at what they do and who have an established clientele will likely be booked so unless you've booked a full day, overnight, or whatever, you should assume that there will be other clients that day.
yes this is a good thread indeed. one of the things that I would love to mention is that when we require that you have a shower, this is also not a negotiable thing. we don't care if other escorts don't ask you. we don't care if you're in a hurry. if it's our policy that you have a shower then that's what's expected and you shouldn't even ask for exceptions to this. we will be prepared to be with you comfortably and we ask that you are prepared to do the same. it's a simple courtesy. maybe we'll decide on a case by case basis. maybe you're a regular who showers before you come to see an escort. these are generally things that are worked out with clients who are regulars. other than that if it's the policy than that's what it is.
What's your real name? This is one question that you should never be asking an escort that you're with. If she wants to offer you that information then that's her choice but don't ever ask for it. Things are the way they are for a reason and there's never any reason to assume that you're an exception to that rule. Escorts have a right to privacy and safety just as you do. Remember that.
Guys, never, ever ask if you can add an escort on social media. That is one way to ensure that they will never meet with you again. Privacy is your right and it's also the right of the escorts that you see.
Never, ever ask for pictures, selfies, or any of the above. Just don't.
Yes, this is good! One way that will ensure I never allow a client to book with me again is if they ask for a discount. If your place of employment asked to pay you less that day would you be okay with that? There are never any circumstances where this won't be taken offensively. Don't ask for discounts. It's never okay and the answer is always going to be no. When you book with an escort you have agreed to the terms and pricing that they have indicated. If you don't like the pricing then it's probably a good idea to look at other escorts that are in a different price range.
For what I know, it's best if you don't ask if they got kids or if they are financially stable with their life. You don't want to get too personal with them or else the conversation would get boring.
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Never, ever ask for pictures, selfies, or any of the above. Just don't.
You can also include asking them about their personal life and telling them to leave immediately once you're done with them.
@scarjo do you know someone who actually asked that to an escort? I hope that escort didn't get mad at her client because of it.
@alwyzrd_1 have you actually tried doing those things that you've mentioned and the escort got mad at you that's why you're suggesting to not to do them.
Never say unpleasant and inappropriate words with her. Always think of her as a human with feelings and not a sex doll.
Do not ask about their personal life, that is a must. Also, do not ask about the information that are clearly stated in the escorts profile because that will too annoying. Last thing, treat them nicely, like how you would treat your girlfriend. Just be a gentleman because even though you are paying them, at the end of the day, they're still human.
