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Alright, this is my first time paying for sex. What is the protocol, I want to seem like I have done this before and I amnot a complete loser haha? Any help for a nubie like me? I do not even know why I am doing this. Like I am so nervous about this whole thing. I have never done this before and I really just want this all to go over smoothly. Ihave been very lonely lately and I miss the touch of a woman. I could really us this.

This is literally the easiest thing that you can do. Just go to their profiles, find the one you like that does the you want to do and message her. When you two meet up just go over everything and then let that gorgeous babe go all over you. Once you are done, you just go about your business and carry on with your life. Just remember to book in advanced if you like her. Her schedule fills up fast so get on that or you will be sorry.

Just remain calm and just go with the flow man, it is not rocket science. You will figure it out pretty quickly. it is very straight forward. Even if you fumble some words and maybe do something awkward, they will understand. They will not like judge you or anything. They will probably help you calm down a bit. You will be fine there, champ.

No problem they want you to enjoy yourself because even though this is their occupation they want to enjoy it too.

@TumaWilson is right. They don't care if you can't talk to them properly because you're shy or feeling awkward about it. What is important for them is to have sex with you.

I you're too nervoust to do this because it's your first time then it's a normal feeling. Just act natural and do your hookup nicely. Don't be shy to ask that you want to have sex because that's what they're expecting.

Just some advice if you are really too shy do to this at least have the confidence to ask them but some escorts really take advantage of newcomers so you better take note that and make sure that whoever you pick can do what satisfies you the most.

Why not try and have a few shots of liquor before you meet her in order to calm your nerves. Also to make you feel relaxed, just think of it as a one night stand with the only diffrence is that you pay them after doing the deed.

boomboom

Why not try and have a few shots of liquor before you meet her in order to calm your nerves. Also to make you feel relaxed, just think of it as a one night stand with the only diffrence is that you pay them after doing the deed.
I think what you're suggesting is more suited for a first date rather than the first being with an escort.  Do you really think that some liquid courage can really help him?

@Ames when was the last time you had sex? What's the reason why you're having problems in finding women to hookup with that you ended up getting an escort?

Just act normal and natural and think you're a sex god ready to slay a woman with your dick. Give yourself enough confidence so you would not feel like a loser.

amanduh

Just act normal and natural and think you're a sex god ready to slay a woman with your dick. Give yourself enough confidence so you would not feel like a loser.
What does he need to do in order to have enough confidence? Are you talking about having a stiff drink before meeting with the escort?

You should make her understand that it's your first time and it's fine if you're nervous and it's normal since you are sexually excited.

The only protocol I know is you should always bring a condom with you so it will be safe. Speaking of first time, you should at least read and review the escort first to guide you and to know her more.

brielarkson

The only protocol I know is you should always bring a condom with you so it will be safe. Speaking of first time, you should at least read and review the escort first to guide you and to know her more.
Definitely bring a pack of it and you will never know how many times you'll be doing it. To avoid the hassle be there early so you won't run into problems and take note of the address.

Similar to the OP I have no insight in going about this as I tried to call a couple of ladies in my area ( East Anglia ) but the numbers were dead and tbh I feel a little awkward calling random women when they could be pre occupied with family etc. I'm late 30s and looking for any escorts in the Norfolk area for just basic sex rather than the rather eccentric tastes I've seen offered to others.. each to their own and all that. Is there a regional forum where you can message ladies instead of just phone numbers where they sometimes don't connect in order to facilitate a possible meeting. I live in a rural area and there are no pubs /clubs locally so having seen friends living the dream lol of miserable marriages/relationships have decided Id prefer living alone but miss the sexual element of it obviously. I have a car and can travel to a degree but don't want to be treking too far Cheers dan 😊    

Just act normally, and read her behaviour and I son't think you should be anxious about this, its not this is your first time. 

It would help if you tell her about it that its been a long time since you had sex with a woman, by doing this she will know how to adjust and guide you as well. As for the rest, just act normally and go with flow. 

Stay calm, engage in conversation, you can bring a bottle wine she'll like that and of course be a confident. As for booking, you don't have to worry as the escort website are pretty easy to navigate so you shouldn't encounter any problem with that. 

Its completely normal to be nervous during the first time but don't overthink it as booking escorts is very easy as well as meeting them. Usually when the escort find out its your first time, they'll adjust and guide you so there's nothing to worry about and just enjoy your time. 

In visiting a website and choosing an escort is really important. You will have an idea base on the information on their profile. There are also escorts that will adjust if they know you are new in this kind of stuff.

boomboom
Why not try and have a few shots of liquor before you meet her in order to calm your nerves. Also to make you feel relaxed, just think of it as a one night stand with the only diffrence is that you pay them after doing the deed.

Did you usually do that? drink some liquor or any alcohol before you go to meet an escort?

@Ames this is like a regular date and sexs is definitely guaranteed 😉 

Since it's your first time, it's pretty normal to get nervous. all the information that you need is already here, and don't worry the escort are professional you will have a great time with them.

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