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There was an issue recently that like I did not know what to do. I for some reason could not get hard at all. She was perfect but like I did not know what to do so I just paid her in full and like left quickly. What should I have done in that situation?

That is a good question. If you can't finish, do you get a discount? Obviously, you have to pay her for showing up and trying but there should be a discount if you can't finish? Am I right?

But what would be the percent to knock off? Is it worth 25% of the price or more or less? That would be the awkward part. Hagglging over the price. No one wants to be in post sex happiness and than have negotiate how much you owe. Like work that out at the beginning. Serioiusly.

That is literally my nightmare.

Was that your first time doing it with an escort? Because if it is, there is a huge possiblity that you might had some performance anxiety that's why you can't get your dick hard. Maybe the next time you're going to do it with an escort, take some viarga to make sure that you're going to be hard and ready for her.

@jessiejay Maybe he got performance anxiety and I think he should have taken viagra before meeting the escort but I don't know how long will it last.

MichelleBaxter

That is literally my nightmare.
That's all you can say to him? Not even an advice on how to get his dick hard?

You might have gotten to excited or had some performance anxiety that's why you were not able to get your dick hard. I would suggest that you try to relax and try to keep yourself calm so that won't happen to you again.

@MichelleBaxter why do you think that it is a nightmare? Have you been with a guy who had the same problem?

This happens if you get so excited and has low sex drive. I think taking a pill helps when you can't get it hard. Did you at least ask for a handjob?

There is no way you can ask for a discount if you can't cum.  The cause is more likely to have been your problem than hers, and who is to judge?The main reason though is that all you are doing is buying the escort's time.  As many agency sites will tell you, "anything else that occurs is between consenting adults".  That's because, even if a list of services is given in the girl's ad ("What I will do" and "What I will not do") they are always at the girl's discretion.  She is entitled to say no, and those are the terms you accept when you hire her.  You take a risk.  You mitigate that risk, as far as you can, by doing your research, Googling her phone number to see what the web says about her, reading reviews and allowing for obvious fake stories.

Yeah that is entirely up to you to deliver. Maybe you need to take a viagra or two or three. I remember having some guys who couldn't cum and they were embarassed. But it is totally natural and most men have the problem. Women are very forgiving in nature and will not make you feel bad about it.

@jessiejay it could totally be a performance anxiety. Maybe the escorts is really that hot and drop dead gorgeous that he suddenly don't know what to do. You should have tell the escort about it, most of them are willing to adjust, guide and help you. ;)

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which site you was booked her?

Agreed you are buying her time.

 

Relax have a cuddle with her perhaps give her some O, if the feeling come back ask her do what ever you like, me having my perineum stroked is a huge turn on.

If you're nervous, a drink and a quick chat should relax you. 

I'm 100 percent sure they invented viagra for that purpose. 

Try to relax and fondle with the girl, finger her, give her an oral, it will arouse her and it will initiate your excitement as well....

If it turns out to be a chronic problem then i would suggest you to visit your doctor...

That's what i do when having difficulties to get hard, take my time and relax…

It happened to me once. Well i was so pissed off at first, but when i calmed down i suggested turning the porn film on and she agreed. 

 

Watching a porn with a hot escort rubbing her clit next to you was a HUGE turn on for me, so my little pal started to swell like immediately. Yes i shagged the life out of her after, while the film was still ongoing...

It's happened to me more than once with the same escort. The first time it happened I suggested that her driver came into the house and I watched them have sex instead! We now have regular 3somes and the performance anxiety is easily sorted out by a viagara.

Happened to me, she was a lot older than claimed, 58 more like 78, she did nothing for me, I should have walked.

 

The meet was very functional and I never got hard enough for penetration, her oral was very poor.

 

I ended up playing with myself, at my request she played with my balls and her long finger nails stroked my perineum, that was hugely erotic, I had a big cum.

 

One day I want more touching of my perineum and A play.

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It's happened to me more than once with the same escort. The first time it happened I suggested that her driver came into the house and I watched them have sex instead! We now have regular 3somes and the performance anxiety is easily sorted out by a viagara.

Did you pay the driver's hour too? 😂

 

Just fooling around mate. It's an awesome story, kudos to you and your way of finding a solution.

@colinh69

 

Accidently discovered fetish. And when you say A-play, does it include prostate massage? 

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@colinh69

 

Accidently discovered fetish. And when you say A-play, does it include prostate massage? 

 

Its opened my mind to A play.

You’re paying for her time so try to get the best of it, what usually makes me hard is giving oral and leading escorts to orgasm. There is no better way to arouse me than listening to her moans and making her pussy damp. 

 

Fudge
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It's happened to me more than once with the same escort. The first time it happened I suggested that her driver came into the house and I watched them have sex instead! We now have regular 3somes and the performance anxiety is easily sorted out by a viagara.

Did you pay the driver's hour too? 😂

 

Just fooling around mate. It's an awesome story, kudos to you and your way of finding a solution.

Happily he didn't ask for any money! He was happy to get involved, and the arrangement has carried on. I just arrange for her to come over and she organises the driver. He's happy as he gets action with her and I am happy to give him a BJ as well!

So it's pretty much bisexual arrangement, you're now getting hard regularly?

RobertSwanson
There was an issue recently that like I did not know what to do. I for some reason could not get hard at all. She was perfect but like I did not know what to do so I just paid her in full and like left quickly. What should I have done in that situation?

You should have relaxed yourself with a small chinwag with her and some groping would have helped you also, quitting was the worst possible scenario. 

 

How else could you learn how to act in those circumstances if you dodge it? You have to face it and learn from it.

Did you face this same problem before or it is the first time? If this is the first time, it can be purely because of stress. Taking a pill will be great the next time.

You should have gone to the toilet and wanked the prick there for 5 minutes, im sure the meeting would have been better that way.

Fudge

So it's pretty much bisexual arrangement, you're now getting hard regularly?

Yes. It sorted out the anxiety. He doesn't get involved with giving to me though. He just gets a BJ and play from me and we play with her together.

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