Lately whenever I have been meeting up with these escorts it feels like I am a million years older then them. We have nothing in common, we do not run in the same circles, we speak entirely different languages. it is so weird to be in the scene being my age. How do other people on here handle it? Am I the only one that feels this way? When we talk about things it is like they are refering to a whole new demographic of people that I have never heard of. They also do not know my references to pop culture and i do not know their's. it is just such a sticky situation. I do not realy know what I am supposed to do about it. How do I learn to be hip with these girls?

I feel that hard man. I feel like being my 40s is too old but like I can only imagine how you feel. That is rough. Have you tried going to one of the more older escorts? They are sexy as fuck and that might be a bit better for you.

Yeah I tried that but it turns out my fetish is girls in their 20s. it is just a better time overall for me. They are all so young and without children. They're skin is soft and tight, they do not have too many scars or stretch marks as older women. They are just that much sexier to me than other age groups.

I get that man. I totally get that.

Honestly dude, you are not paying to connect with them. You do not need to have long conversations with them, you just need to get your rocks going. Who cares if you speak the same 21 st century language. You are paying them. But I mean, read a bunch of buzzfeed articles and learn a thing or two. Listicles about what Millenials like is always helpful. And everyone likes talking about themselves, so just ask them questions about themselves if you can't think of anything to actually say.

Well I do want that intimacy and that connection. I want it to feel less like I am paying sex and more like I am giving money to a friend who I also get to have sex with. I can't just jump into it unfortunetaly. I want someone to be there next to me that I get along with and it feels so natural. I do not some sort of business interaction. I need this sort of thing. it is not just about sex for me.

Yeah you are right. You got me there. I can see not everyone just being able to like jump in to it. you are right. I always just think that things are easy for everyone else, as they are for me but they aren't I need to remember that.

Hey man don't even think about it. You aren't too old for anything, if anything you are a still a young happenin man. You got the world on a string and you know it. Just bring that confidence with you and every date that you go on. You will always succeed there brother. There is no such thing as too old. get real.

I think what you should be concern about is having fun than worrying the age difference between you tow since she already knows that his potential client will vary in different ages.

How young were the escorts that you've booked? Maybe they were too young for you that's why you feel that you're too old for this game. I would suggest to either get one who's nearer to your age or try to catch up with the young ones.

You can always learn from them and find a time to research those people that they are talking about so you can relate. If you're feeling old then I guess you really need to find someone who is close to your age like what robz told you.

Why not go get someone who's nearer to your age so that you don't feel that you're too old for doing it. Just try and find escorts who's the same age or a few years younger than you but looks younger than her actual age.

Are you really expecting them to care a conversation with you? If that's what you're after, why not tell her beforehand that she needs to know about things that you want to talk about with her so that she can do a bit research for it.

@planejayne maybe he wants to do some small talk with the escort before or after coitus that's why he feels that he can't relate with the escorts that he books.

All I can say is that don't overdo it since they will be definitely turned off by it. Just try and know some basics when it comes to what's cool and hip with the kids, then you're good to go.