I am not a masochist but I really love fucking BDSM way. I want to inflict a little pain to the girl and in return. will pleasure her to compensate. BUt it's really hard to find a girl that allows whipping. I want not just to choke but a little whipping. each time I whip, I will lick her pussy to dry. but I want to see her in pain and in pleasure at once..

recommendation? 

I like genuine submission, I want you to genuinely want to please me.

She is very personable and pleasant to be with. She ie also very gracious and professional.