Can you help / advise

I am looking to meet a lady for some company and maybe some fun.

Bottom line is my wife of 20 years had an affair, and we are trying to get past it - but its killing me that someone has had her and seen every inch of her.  So we have a few choices... we split up - I cant be arsed.  We carry on - the jelously is too much...  Or we carry on and I get some fun on the side.... but I dont know where to start but this seems like the preferred option.

Anyone want to guide me through it?

Firstly what does she want and is the affair over.  If you want fun on the side why can't she have some - perhaps swinging is for you two.

I long history together is worth trying to save.

I dont know if its over, she says it is, but she denied it for so long, I know she is competent at lying.

But I want to get a lady for some fun and see if it makes me feel better.

Simple really, except I dont know where to start.

Firstly get yourself a girl, enjoy some time, you deserve it. Secondly, after the emotions and everything settle down you will recognize your path and it should be much more simpler to solve your marriage problems. Wish you all the best. 

Thank you Cactus.

So how do I go about it?  I was thinking an agency and get a room in a hotel.

Are hotels smart at spotting guests?  Or do the girls know the best hotels?

Choose a reliable agency, check the reviews before punting a girl. Hotel sounds ok, or rent an apartment somewhere for a day. If you're not so sure about getting an apartment or hotel room there are a lot of girls who provide incall service, it could be less complicated and it will certainly cost you less.

Cactus, you're a great help thank you

I can splash out on a hotel, Im not sure the (cheating) wife would be happy with someone coming to the house.

How for you find a reputable agency.  Searching online lots of them are really old. 

I can travel to anywhere from Birmingham... so Leeds, Manchester, Liverpool, MNilton Keynes, Nottingham.  I dont fancy London.

Can anyone recommend any reputable midlands agencies / ladies?

There is a topic about Birmingham independent escorts, there you can find reviews from the guys who have been with them. 

https://forum.escortrankings.uk/topic/4462/birmingham-girls

Im not from Birmingham so i'm not familiar with agancies there, but i'll post the Birmingham agency escorts gallery here so you can see the selection. A lot of verified girls are there which is good. 

https://www.escortrankings.uk/escorts-birmingham-602#sortby=new_rev

Where are you from Cactus...?

You're the only person trying to help me and if you can recommend a local agency to you I can commute

Im from London, there are a lot of them. Try with Dior, Peachy, Prive, Barracuda, they usually offer a good selection of eastern europe beauties, two in one, affordable and sexy.  

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Incall means to our place. Outcall means we travel to clients homes or hotels . You can try adultwork. Lots escorts on there. Even I'm there. But I'm in Norfolk. But ALWAYS make sure they have fantastic feedback.and verified.  Or if you want to try swingers clubs. There's a site called fabswingers .. Good luck