I'm thinking of booking an escort for the first time in my life. I have grown tired of the average sex I've been having with women that I've been meeting. Now I want to have some fun with a girl who knows what she's doing. I don't know much about dealing with escorts. Do you usually pay for an escort in advance or do you pay afterwards? If you're paying in advance, what are the risks? Please help me out as it's one thing that's bothering me. Right now, I'm not entirely comfortable paying up front.

Some escort do ask you to pay up front because they will block the time in their schedule. If you cancel at the last moment, they won't have work which is fair enough in my view. I have paid many escorts in advance, sometimes even the full amount. I haven't had any bad experiences up to now.

Hey Reggy! If you're going with a reputed escort, you should pay up front if she asks you. If not, you can pay a portion of her fee up front and the rest after you're done with her. It comes down to what the escort prefers.

Thanks for your replies guys. I guess it comes down to what the escort prefers and how much I trust them.

I usually have a fee if a client wants to book me. It's not the full amount. They can pay the balance after we're done. I think that works. However, I know that some escorts ask clients to pay the full amount in advance. Different escorts operate in different ways.

Hey elisabethmature and escort.elaine! Great to have two lovely escorts weighing in on this. I totally understand why you guys demand an advance payment. I get the reasons behind that. @escort.elaine the way you do things sounds perfect to be honest. I hope the escort I'll eventually go with will do the same. Thanks eveyrone!

To be safe, just give them your payment once you're done doing it with her. Or if you maybe gave her half of the payment before and then the other half will be given once the night is over between the two of you.

It's more advisable paying her later. But I guess the escorts here wanted to be paid in advance and they will trust you immediately when you pay upfront.

I would suggest that you try what @cevinkey has suggested if she demands for payment immediately. But the common practice is that you give it to them once you're done with doing it with them.

Going to suggest that you give the payment once the service was done so that you're sure that she would work hard for it and not just dial it in?

I've always paid upfront and fortunately have never been ripped off. I do what research I can and I maintain a good relationship so I could trust them with my money.

Well, I respect every escort's right to set her own rules as to how she conducts her business. Of course, paying up later is the best option but it depends on your agreement.

@Reggy-London were you able to book an escort already or you're still looking for an escort and thinking on how you're going to pay her?

@kandykendall I was about to ask him the same question. I feel that he would post again here if he has more questions when it comes to being with escorts.