Has anyone ever tried porn based BDSM with their partners? I wanted to know if using a belt like they do in porn is safe or the base level is fun. It always seems as if the more and more hardcore it gets, the exciting and sexual the experience is but most stories I've heard say it's too much effort and that there are better, sophisticated and subtle ways to turn your partner on. Is there like a base level BDSM thing I can try with my partner to begin with to understand each other's liking and pain threshold because I don't want us to end up with unnecessary bruises or injuries. Sure aggressive sex or rough sex is fun but not at the cost of losing my body parts or my sanity. 

A lot many people practice BDSM with their respective partners. It is pretty common these days. Yes, it might be painful but all in all, it really depends on your partner’s threshold. Some people enjoy to receive pain during sex, so for them, it is quite fun while some people do not like it and it is a big turn off for them.

Injuries can be caused only if the tools that you are using are very aggressively hurtful, like if nipple clamps or pins are used, then they might cause bleeding – like there is a fair chance of it happening. Infact, a whip, some people use that, can also leave marks and painful injuries on the body, but then again some people enjoy it, they find some kinda thrill in it.

If you are just using a belt it won’t cause much pain, like maybe just tie her up with it, and eat her while she cums. Or maybe blindfold her too while doing so.

I personally do not enjoy the BDSM part, I feel sex is about pleasure and not pain, but yeah I have seen people practice it, It is not really a big deal.

I know exactly how you feel. BDSM is uncharted territory for most people and it is unsafe if not done correctly. You should consider what your partner’s limitations are before trying it. People should know when to stop or have a safe word when doing BDSM with their better halves or escorts because it cannot be done without mutually deciding on a safe word for those one-night stands and random hookups. The partners should know each other well so it is easier to have it that is what my belief is.

Come on!! It is the best sex ever!!! I frickin' enjoy being dominated by my partner and staying in a submissive state. That helpless state where you have no control over your body really gets turned on, there is not any feeling like that at all to compare it with. Yes, it is painful sometimes but where is the fun in sex if it is just so vanilla. I love getting fucked with aggressive emotions, it tells me how badly my partner is craving to fuck my brains out. That adrenaline rush is worth every second. People who have not tried it do not know what they’re missing in life.

I wouldn’t want to try it. It is not my cup of tea with all honesty, sex or making love can be aggressive and wild but it does not need to be violent. I do not need to get bruises to get turned on, I mean come on what if you get severely injured or worse scarred for life if your partner does not know your limitations. Sex does not require to risk your health or an arm or leg. Sorry guys, It is totally bullshit.

From my experience BDSM is the thing you only want to do with your partner who knows your limits and can respect that, a tried it with one night stand years ago and he was very unpleasant, he was treating me like some whore, and he was really hurting me, I barely could uncuff myself and immediately got out, i was really frighten in that moment 

The preperation for full BDSM sex is just too long, i mean come on, i think it's not worth it 

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The preperation for full BDSM sex is just too long, i mean come on, i think it's not worth it 

I only like the simple BDSM, little bit of flogging and tying not really fun of the very complicated ones but I am open to those.

keep it simple and raw, few brusses, a scratch there and there works for me just fine even without bdsm 

@badboki that’s why I’ve been sharpening my nails