I agree that one of the biggest turn offs is lack of engagement, when the women doesn't want to maintain eye contact or doesn't give a few smiles during the meet. I get they might be tired or recently had a bad customer but committment to the service should be a given.
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One of the biggest turn ons for me is when the woman has recently washed her hair. Its so great to lean in and breath in that wonderful scent from recently washed and conditioned hair especially when she is sucking on you !
My regular often has fresh flowers on the table next to her bed which looks great and adds something special to the room each time. She also plays really relaxing meditation types sounds like running water and birdsong. Im sure its stuff like that which enables me to last longer with her and feel so alive when I leave her place !