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I concur. All those seemingly meaningless details have a big effect on the outcome. As you said, fresh flowers and tidy premises are always promising and a nice touch, as much as a messy room could be off putting. A littered room is almost always a sign of bad mental health for example etc. etc. 

I agree that one of the biggest turn offs is lack of engagement, when the women doesn't want to maintain eye contact or doesn't give a few smiles during the meet.  I get they might be tired or recently had a bad customer but committment to the service should be a given.

 

One of the biggest turn ons for me is when the woman has recently washed her hair.  Its so great to lean in and breath in that wonderful scent from recently washed and conditioned hair especially when she is sucking on you !

My regular often has fresh flowers on the table next to her bed which looks great and adds something special to the room each time.  She also plays really relaxing meditation types sounds like running water and birdsong.  Im sure its stuff like that which enables me to last longer with her and feel so alive when I leave her place !

Lack of engagement was always off putting to me, it's like we're doing it forcefully, without escort's will. 

I agree. Especially if the smell is too strong and sharp, and when it mixes up with the ladies juices, it doesn't smell nor taste good. 

Finding a strong smell of fabric conditioner on her knickers. While it nice to know an escort is clean, on a date with a meal etc those knickers will be moist with a ladies scent.

One of my ex regulars was having lunch when i arrived, and asked me to wait 5 minutes for her. I was pretty excited and looking forward to the session, but i swear, those 5 minutes watching her eating totally swiped away the mood. It was one of my biggest disappointments ever.

Don't know about you, but i like them being loud, even if it's perfectly clear that they're faking it. It creates that porno film ambience and it works perfectly for me. 

Fake enthusiasm and especially fake orgasm, after that my shaft takes 15 days vacation. 

I agree, it reminds me that someone else’s cock was 5 minutes ago in the same place i'm intending to stick my cock. 

Turn off is the bin in the room full to the top with used rubbers and toilet roll.  You can fit allot of rubbers in a bin before it's full fuck me these girls must get some amount of cock 

Nice lingerie, then when you explore the crotch area it smells of fabric conditioner, the ladies scent is such a turn on.

Huge turn off is an OW only policy. 

turn on = cuming a heavey load on face no flinches getting her to suck it some more while cum on her face 

turn off = limitations to her snatch and arse hole 

 

I had to wait for some skank to finish off her meal so the session could start. I swear there is no more off putting thing than that. I couldn't get hard and just walked.

Variety of moves and kinky stuff gets me going, girl just needs to act genuinely. The most off putting moment of my punter career was when i bumped into a guy who was just leaving my escort's place and knowing he had just hit her, i suddenly lost interest...

What's the best way to make the escort shut her mouth? She's mesmerizingly sexy but she just can't switch off her incessant talking and it's a nightmare for getting focused on the main goal.

One of the most off putting thing that happened to me was the escort's untidy room i had to fuck her in. Dirty clothes all over the place, empty beer bottles and chips bags, the room wasn't ventilated in days, so i couldn't concentrate on the action whatsoever. 

I've been doing this for 3 and a half years now and from my experience i got to say that the most annoying thing that an escort can do is a fake moaning, hate when they do that. 

 

On the other hand, loosen up and flirty escorts that want to get to know you first and build up the ambience gradually through the conversation were the best for me. I've met just a few girls like that, it's really hard to find them nowadays. 

Turn on - when she's rubbing her clit and doesn't hesitate to do kinky stuff...

 

Turn off - aloof escorts with passionless services 

 

Came across both, never repeated with the latter.

The truth

I remember when i suggested my girlfriend to let me shave her pussy in a bath. I thought my cock was going to explode while  doing it, and she was so fired up that her inner lips were fully opened and outer lips started to swallow. Giving her an oral after  was an extraordinary feeling. It was a squirting festival…

Saw it in a porn movie once, it was super hot even watching it...

I don't like girls taking control all the time, it's ok if they suggest another position or something, but when they're leading throughout the session it's not my pair of shoes.

I've done that with my ex once. It was the most exciting thing we have ever done together. 

I remember when i suggested my girlfriend to let me shave her pussy in a bath. I thought my cock was going to explode while  doing it, and she was so fired up that her inner lips were fully opened and outer lips started to swallow. Giving her an oral after  was an extraordinary feeling. It was a squirting festival…

I love watching girl masturbating in front of me. 

When girl is kinky, it's always huge turn on. I hate to waste my money on a dead fish.

Hot lingerie arouse me so much while i hate when an escort tries to fool me with dragging out their sessions or similar things...

Yeah, rubbing her clit is what i want to see while performing. 

 

Turn off is always bad hygiene...

Love when a girl flicks her clit while i pound her....

 

And the turn off is when she doesn't want to cooperate, passionless girl are the worst....

Hygiene is the most important thing for the man and the woman, both need to be well cleansed when it comes to a sexual encounter.  
Most escorts take very good care of their hygiene, but I remember an encounter with an escort where hygiene was not very good, I ended up cancelling the service, it was the first and only time it’s happened to me, but I lost my desire within seconds. 

I love it when the girl smells good especially her hair. It always turns me on 

Turn on, flexible and open minded, ready to take on different positions and new stuff. Turn off - dirty feet and nails, sorry. 

looking4moore

Turn off, if the guy is not pounding me hard enough 😂 and can't make me cum 😜

Oh Baby, if you agree to meet with me I'll make sure you're enjoying every bits of it. Just tell me what you like and I'll deliver it 😘

Turn on if the girl is into foreplay and my biggest turn offs are rushing foreplay and poor hygiene 😳

Turn off, if the guy is not pounding me hard enough 😂 and can't make me cum 😜

freekyeunz

Poor hygiene is always a turn off for me 😩

Pretty sure you'r having a hard time giving blowjobs to a man with a poor hygiene 😂

freekyeunz

Poor hygiene is always a turn off for me 😩

you have any experiences hooking up with men who has poor hygiene? 

Poor hygiene is always a turn off for me 😩

Had the same experience ages ago where the woman suddenly laugh like really laugh while were in the middle of our business. Ruined my mood and I blocked her after that. 

What are the simplest things that make you aroused and the turn off's that you can't overcome?

I had a date last night and the guy started making funny noises while we had sex, he was excellent, I had the time of my life, but after that, I couldn't continue and I'm thinking Is it about me or any of you has that same kind of problem ?

 

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