I think most punters do a lot of window shopping before the first meet. In time you pick up similar adverts at a location, almost certainly a brothel
Read the profiles carefully, look at the background to her pictures, does she live in a sh*t hole. When you decide to meet have 2-3 reserves in case she cancels, it surprisingly hard to book some ladies at short notice.
Take just you money and mobile to the venue, be clean even if its wet wipes in a lay bay beforehand and strong mints.
You will be nervous walking to the meet, if it the lady whose advert it is happy days, some will offer you a drink and chat, other straight to the bedroom. Kissing may turn you on exploring her body likewise. In my case a 26yo beauty, her pussy was beautiful, I did wonder who else had been there as I thrust my tongue towards it.
Then penetration, as you enter her and start to fuck you have crossed the line and are now a punter, cheating on your partner! At the time you won’t be thinking about that you will be wanting to cum inside her. My first wasn’t the best sex ever but was highly charged emotionally and I really unloaded inside her.
Regrets, that I didn’t see her again before she moved away.